-I was interviewed by the newspaper. And apparently they talked about me on the radio. Sometimes it seems that people I meet in town already know who I am, and sometimes they don’t.
-Have been doing a lot of housework, including two loads of hand-washing laundry (small loads, but hey I did them all by myself and they included a pair of jeans and a fleece which were big pains). Also, my family sweeps the entire house and outside walkway twice a day, without fail, even though the dirt is hardly noticeable until the end of the day (if ever). My host father complained about how he spends something like 4 hours a day just sweeping and mopping, and when I asked him why he doesn’t just do it once a day, he gave some vague answer about “from dust to dust”…
-Found out my host father was one of 24 siblings, my host mother was one of 12. My host brother has somewhere over 50 cousins.
-At least once, I mistakenly implied that I was romantically involved with my host father, by saying that I lived con Profesor Tesén, instead of con la familia de Profesor Tesén. Thankfully, my counterpart knew what I meant and warned me to rephrase that next time.
-Almost unknowingly participated in a semi-political rally (a big no-no for Peace Corps Volunteers)… from now on I will ask more questions before accepting invitations.
-Did you know that if you look at a plantain/banana while you are pregnant you will miscarry? No, it’s not a legend, I’m told. It really happened to Paulina.
-Jeff wins the award for funniest and most awkward First Week Story I have heard. The dear boy, living in a community much smaller than mine in Ancash, was invited to what he thought was a charla (talk/meeting) at the Heath Center. When he arrived, it turned out that they were having some kind of event promoting breast-feeding. This event was basically a breast-feeding competition, where half a dozen women were sitting in a circle, with their babies going at it. Jeff was asked to the “judge,” and God knows what the criteria was- mostly, who went the longest? After about half an hour of extreme discomfort, trying to figure out where to look and how to act, one nursing baby remained and his/her mother was announced the winner. Jeff was asked to take a picture with each contestant and her baby. The breasts were put away for the pictures.
I was fairly productive, met most of the artisans in the artisan park (although I don’t remember any names) and met a few high school Directors while delivering my oficios. I attended two meetings, both of which were really helpful for my work. I also did a lot of thinking about my purpose and role in this community, and am starting to feel less anxious about everything, especially about the pressure I was/am putting on myself to be “productive.” I’m going to focus less on comparing myself to my expectations...if that makes sense.
You work will come with time. You have to learn how to hold a baseball before you can throw it. Be less willing to put pressure on yourself.
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